Blair Singer, a best-selling author, teacher, and Rich Dad advisor, joins
Robert Kiyosaki to discuss the key, teachable elements to thrive as an
entrepreneur.
Sales pitches one-on-one takes a different skill set than pitching from a
stage, correct?
“That's right. Yeah. So, you take one-on-one, which is relatively safe, and
now you expose yourself to 10 people, 20 people, 100 people, thousands of
people. And so the fear of rejection, which is the big thing that holds
people back, becomes amplified until you get past the threshold.”
Your first book was Little Voice Mastery. Why is that so
important?
“Well, Little Voice Mastery is important because the toughest sale of all
is you selling you to yourself. You don't really have to worry too much
about customer objections. It's your objections after pounding on door
after door and being yelled at, sent away, told your scum, to be able to
still stand up and keep selling because as an entrepreneur, one day, same
thing's going to happen. You're going to get knocked down and you need to
stand up. And the toughest sale of all is selling to yourself.”
Tell us about your latest book?
“The latest book is called Summit Leadership. Summit Leadership, about
taking your whole team to the top. The big deal is that if you're going to
go from the S quadrant as solo, self-employed, and go into the B quadrant
where you're going to require teams and systems, then that's a way
different skillset that's just not taught in school. Right? The reason it's
called Summit Leadership is because I've spent better part of my career
working with entrepreneurs all over the world, helping them get from the S
to B, overcome obstacles, get their dreams, all that's stuff. And about 10
years ago, I had the opportunity to go to Tanzania, Africa with my son,
which is another whole story. But I went there with him and in seven days
on the mountain, what blew my mind was that all the lessons of being an
entrepreneur and going from S to B, the trials, the tribulations, the
exhilaration, the depressions, all got compressed into a seven-day
experience.
One of the things, one of the lessons, is that getting to the top is only
halfway. So, everybody goes, "I just want to get to the top. I want to get
to the top." And people get to the top and they have a hard time getting
down, to your point. So, the preparation is key to the whole thing.”
What are some of the key points you would like to pass on to people who are
looking to become entrepreneurs?
“I mean, the BI triangle talks about mission, team, leadership. And if
you've got a mission, but you can't sell it, you're dead in the water.
Okay? If you get a team and you can't sell them on what it is they need to
do, how to take the next step, you're dead in the water again. And what
happens is if you can't raise capital, you're unfunded, and you're dead in
the water again. So as you said, in order to master the BI triangle, sales
is critical.”
Let’s talk about our friend, Richard Tan.
“So, he (Richard) figured he could sell his way up that mountain (Mount
Kilimanjaro in Tanzania). And he and struggled and struggled ad struggled,
and there's two summits and he got to the lower summit, and we stopped him
and said, "Richard, you can't go any further." Like every entrepreneur,
bull headed entrepreneur, "I'm going to grit it out." His pulse ox, the
oxygen in his blood, was so low that it was near fatal. And we said,
"You're going down now." And he fought, and I went up to him and I grabbed
him, and I said, "Richard, look in my eyes. You're going down this
mountain. That's it. This mountain's not going away. You can always come
back." So, he went down, and his shoes were too big. His toes turned black
and blue, and I thought that was the end of him. But Richard, being the
kind (of person he is) started training. Because he hadn't trained before.
So, he's training, he's running triathlons. His wife comes up to me and
goes, "What did you do to him?" I go, "Nothing. Why?" She goes, "My God, he
had heart problems, the heart problems have gone away. The doctor says he's
in better shape. What's the deal?" "I think he just wants to get to the top
of the mountain." And he did. He came back and he crushed it. Absolutely
crushed it. And his life has changed ever since.”
There are two kinds of leadership; academic leadership that pushes you
down, and Military leadership that inspires up. Most demagogues, small
leaders, they have to be the best, in their mind, right?
“That's right. You're right. There are two very different forms of
leadership. And the idea is, as a leader, if you can push people up to be
better than you, that's the true earn the right. You've really earned the
right as a leader if you can get other people to actually excel and be
better than you, based upon what you teach them.”
You always want to be around people smarter than you, but a tyrant can only
hang out with people less than them. Any comments on that?
“Yeah. Well, you see it a lot. It's very ego driven. It's all about me,
it's not about developing a team. But if you're going to build a great
organization and go to the B quadrant, you've got to be able to protect the
team. You don't have to be nice to them. You don't have to treat them with
kid gloves, but if you want them to stand up, then you've got to be able to
protect them at some level. One of the things you brought your friend ...
The general. Remember when the general came and talked to us? Three-star
General Jack Bergman, now Congressman Bergman. I asked him, I said, "How do
you recruit people?" I said, "You're recruiting young kids and putting them
in harm's way. They don't make much money, and how does that work?" He
goes, "It's not that difficult." I go, "What do you mean?" He goes, "Look,
the one thing in common, people want to be part of something bigger than
themselves." That's number one. Number two, when they come into the Marine
Corps, what he said is he said, "They know somehow or other, even though
they're not going to get paid a lot, they're going to end up becoming the
best and biggest version of themselves." Two of the most powerful sales
pitches that you could give anybody if you want them to be on your team.”
“You can't push down. Think about that. You're faced with altitude, you're
faced with weather change, you're faced with all these problems and your
job is to take that person who's never climbed before and get them to
believe in themselves, get them to take one more step, one more step, so
they can realize their dream.”
Tell us again why we should read your new book, Summit Leadership?
“Well, Summit Leadership is your roadmap. It's a roadmap, it's your trail
guide to get you from wherever you are to whatever the dream is.
Specifically, from the S quadrant to the B quadrant. And basically, it's
eight steps to get you there. Roadmap, follow the map.”
Tell us about your son, Zach?
“You talk about climbing mountains, that's the biggest one of all. So,
Zach's 19 years old and he's disillusioned with university, doesn't like
doing it, drifting trying to find himself a job and he responded to an ad
for sales. So, get this. He's never sold anything in his life and what's he
doing now? He's banging on doors, going door to door, selling water.
Nestle's water, selling it door to door with dispensers. He's making a
minimum of 90 calls a day.”
“90 calls a day. And he said, "Dad, you know everything about sales. Teach
me about sales." I go, "Two rules, ask questions and don't give up. Don't
give up." And he's killing it.”
You can read more about Blair Singer on his website www.blairsinger.com and purchase
his newest book, Summit Leadership.