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Good Advice Goes a Long Way

Why choosing your advisors wisely is key to success

A while back, I took a magnificent bike trip through the Loire Valley in France with four girlfriends. The five of us are all entrepreneurial women. Kathy owns a branding and marketing company. Lisa owns several upscale drug and alcohol rehab facilities. Ronda owns a school dedicated to the troubled students that the public school system will not accept. Lee Ann is a business consultant to several major corporations.

We all started our businesses from the ground up. We all made a ton of mistakes, but even the biggest fiascos didn't beat us, although there were times when every one of us wanted to quit. There was no safety net, and nothing to fall back on, which was good because it forced us to keep moving forward.

A company that offers biking, hiking, and walking trips all over the world organized the bike tour. Everything was first class. There were two women who were in charge of our Loire Valley group, twenty-five of us in all. These two women were responsible for our hotels, transportation, meals, biking itinerary, and most importantly, making sure we all made it to the next destination along our journey.

Emily's journey

Over the course of six days, we got to know our two group leaders pretty well. The last evening of our trip, the entire group gathered for dinner in the dining room of a beautiful historic boutique hotel where we were staying. At the end of the meal, Emily, one of the group leaders, sat down next to me, and we talked. Turns out that while we were on our journey, she was on her own as well.

"I love what I do, and I'm very good at it," she said. "Yet, I'm ready for my next phase in life."

I asked her, "Do you have any idea what that next phase is?"

Emily nodded. "I want to start my own business. It's along the lines of what I do now, but a completely new and unique market. I've been researching it for about a year."

"What's your next step?" I asked.

"I think I'm going to go back to school," she replied, "to get my MBA (Masters of Business Administration)."

I was a little surprised and asked, "Why do you want an MBA?"

She replied, "I believe an MBA will give me the skills I need to be an entrepreneur."

That was all I needed to hear.

A little free advice

The next morning was going to be the last ride of our trip, and I wanted to use it to help Emily out a bit since she had done such an amazing job helping us out.

"Emily," I told her, "tomorrow you are biking with the girls!"

The next morning at 7:30 a.m., the six of us women got on our bikes and rode off. To kick-start the discussion, I asked Kathy, "You have an MBA. Did it give you the skills to be an entrepreneur?"

She just laughed. "No! An MBA is designed for people who want to work in the corporate world. It trains you to be a corporate employee, which is where I started."

Lisa turned to Emily, "Do you want to be a corporate employee?"

Emily looked a bit stunned, "No. I want to start my own business."

Ronda asked Kathy, "Was the MBA education worth it?"

"Interesting question," Kathy replied. "The education is good. It will give you tools and strategies you can use in your business. But I don't know of an MBA program that will teach you how to start and run your own business-how to be an entrepreneur. You also need to look at the time and money you will spend on your MBA versus putting that time and money into your start-up business."

We biked for three hours. The conversation was non-stop, lively, and very candid. We laughed about the trials and tribulations of being an entrepreneur. Every new story seemed better than the last. The five of us were having such a good time reliving our past business adventures that we didn't notice until we stopped riding that Emily had become very quiet. Her eyes were as wide as they could be. "No one's ever told me this before!" she exclaimed. "And I've spoken to quite a few people about this."

A little bad advice

"I'm curious, Emily," I asked. "Who suggested that you go back to school and get your MBA?"

"Several of my bike-tour clients," she answered.

"What business were these clients in?" I prodded.

"They were retired," she said.

"Retired from what?" I kept pushing.

Emily started to laugh. "They all had successful executive corporate jobs!"

Lisa jumped in, "So they were giving you advice on how to do what they did-not knowing what it is you want to do."

"That's exactly right," Emily realized, "because what the five of you are saying makes sense to me. I was always a bit confused about the MBA path."

I added, "That's because we are all doing what it is you want to do. If I'm going to ask someone for advice, I seek out people who have actually done what I want to do. I want to learn from people who are out there doing it."

Emily was starting to realize that her current job of leading groups of adults, handling budgets, working with vendors, and dealing with emergencies on a daily basis was probably the best education she could get towards her dream of becoming an entrepreneur.

One Success ≠ Success in Everything

Emily told us she assumed that if a person was successful in their profession, they were smart in all areas. She had been taking advice from successful people who were employees of companies. They have a much different mindset than a person who owns the company.

This all goes to prove that just because a person is successful in one aspect of their life does not mean they know everything about everything. And it also goes to show, not all advice is equal advice.

In life, if you want to be successful, you must learn to choose your advisors wisely.

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