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True Power Comes with Looking in the Mirror

Why money isn’t the answer to your problems

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Summary

  • There are three types of power that humans resort to

  • Knowing your self worth is the first step to true power

  • Increase your financial education so that you can turn your power to success


There’s an old saying that the Japanese were aware of three powers: the sword, the jewel and the mirror.

The power of the sword (weapons)

The sword symbolizes the power of weapons. Great nations throughout history have invested in their military to gain an advantage over other nations. For instance, America has spent trillions of dollars on weapons, and because of this, it has the most powerful military presence in the world.

Many crooks also rely on the power of the sword to make a living. This is sometimes by choice, and other times it is forced upon them. But for whatever reason, there are those who use weapons in order to make their impact on the world and to gain power.

The power of the sword is based in fear. It is the fear that if you do not have weapons, you will be overcome by another power that does. People who rely on the power of the sword say, “It’s a dog eat dog world.”

But at Rich Dad, we don’t believe true power and success come from the power of the sword.

The power of the jewel (money)

The jewel represents the power of money. Consider the saying, "Remember the golden rule. He who has the gold makes the rules." History is filled with examples of the rich using the power of money to gain an advantage.

Money is a neutral medium. It can be used for good or for bad. Someone like Bill Gates uses his wealth for doing much good in the world. But there are those who also use money to take advantage of the weak. There is power in money, but it is not the ultimate source of power and success.

Contrary to many beliefs, we don’t believe that the Rich Dad mission is about just money and being rich alone. No; instead, it’s to provide people with the knowledge to have true power and success, and that starts with the most important power.

The power of the mirror (self-knowledge)

The mirror symbolizes the power of self-knowledge. And, according to Japanese legend, self-knowledge is the most treasured of all three powers because it guides how all other powers are used, whether they are used for good or for ill.

Here’s a story about Robert Kiyosaki to help illustrate.

During his senior year of high school, rich dad’s son, Mike, and Robert were lined up in front of a small group of students made up primarily of the leaders of their class. The guidance counselor turned to Mike and Robert and said, “The two of you will never amount to anything.”

Some of their classmates laughed as the counselor continued, “From now on, I am not going to waste my time on either of you. I’m only going to spend my time with the students who want to be here and to learn. You two are the class clowns and you will never amount to anything if you keep it up. Now get out of here.”

Those words hurt Mike and Robert deeply, but that counselor also did them a huge favor. Essentially, the guidance counselor forced them to make a choice. Would they believe what she had to say about them? Or would they look in the mirror and believe what they knew to be true about themselves? By inspiring both of them to strive even harder and be true to themselves, her words carried them through college and into their own businesses.

Many years later, Mike and Robert went to their high school reunion together. They were intrigued to find that most of the so-called senior leaders, the people whom their guidance counselor had lavished praise on, had not become successful in the years after high school.

Mike and Robert were not academic whiz kids. They were not class leaders, financial geniuses, or athletic stars. For the most part, they were slow-to-average learners and students. But they knew who they were and what they wanted out of life. Rather than buy into those stinging words from that guidance counselor, they used them as fire to keep going, learn from their mistakes, and endure in both good and bad times.

Success can rarely be predicted. Instead, you must determine whether you will be successful or not. You must work hard to earn success. You must look in the mirror each and every day and determine what you will be and how you will shape the world.

What does the look in the mirror tell you?

For the middle-class, the power of money all too often controls them. Each day, members of the middle-class get up, work hard and fail to ask if what they do makes sense.

Instead, controlled by the power of money, the middle-class follows the crowd. They conform rather than question. They blindly repeat mantras handed to them by so-called experts: “Diversify.” “Your home is an asset.” “Get a safe job.” “Don't make mistakes.” “Don't take risks.” “Save your money.”

Ultimately behind the power of money is fear

Just like with the power of weapons, the power of money is often rooted in fear. People fear not having enough and being ostracized. The fear of not having enough causes us to work harder and harder. The fear of not being ostracized causes us to try and keep up with the Joneses. All too often, the result is the same. The American dream turns into an American nightmare.

Here is the familiar scenario.

Recently married, a happy, highly-educated young couple moves into a cramped, rented apartment. They realize they are saving money because two can live as cheaply as one. For a while they are happy.

Then, the apartment begins to feel cramped. They see friends moving into homes and having kids. They decide to save money to buy their dream home so they can have kids too. They now have two incomes, and they begin to focus on their careers. They make a lot more money, but their expenses go up as well.

As the young couple's income goes up, their tax burden rises. And when they buy their dream home, they incur property taxes. Additionally, they also buy a new car, new furniture and new appliances to match the new house. Their liabilities column goes up and is full of mortgage and credit-card debt.

income expenses and liabilities go up personal financial statement

They are now trapped in the Rat Race. Soon they have a baby and work harder to make ends meet. A credit card comes in the mail, and they max it out trying to stay afloat. A consumer credit agency calls and promises to help them consolidate their debt into one low payment. They do it, pay off their credit cards and feel like they've done the smart thing. They breathe a sigh of relief.

Then their friends invite them to the mall for the Memorial Day sale. The young couple promises themselves they won't buy anything, but they bring the credit card just in case.

In the end, they find themselves asking the same question: “How can we make more money?”

Trust in yourself

Most people do not have money problems. Rather, they have a financial education problem. They don't know the difference between an asset and a liability.

Money seldom solves people's problems. Intelligence and financial education solve problems. And if you want to be rich, you must understand both how money works and how you work. You must look in the mirror and understand your motivations, desires, and dreams—and stay true to them even when it means going against the Joneses. You must trust in yourself and not pay attention to others around you, what they value and how they value you.

Even though you may not be good at everything, take time developing what you need to learn and your world will change rapidly. Never run from what you know you need to learn. Face your fears and doubts and new worlds will open to you.

If you did not do well in school, or if you weren’t the most popular, or you’re not good at math, or whatever other reasons you have to sell yourself short—none of it matters in the long run. Those so-called shortcomings only count if you think they count.

For those of you who are considering embarking on your own financial journey of success, you may have some doubts about your abilities. Instead, trust that you have everything you need right now to be successful financially.

Remember that the only person who determines the thoughts you choose to believe in about yourself is you. So, the reward from the journey is not only the freedom that money buys but also the trust you gain in yourself.

Prepare daily to be bigger than your smallness. The reason most people stop and turn back from their dreams is because the tiny person with the loud voice found inside each of us wields more power than our bigger person.

All it takes to bring out your natural, God-given gifts is your desire, determination, and a deep faith that you have a genius and a gift that is unique and that the world needs.

Some people go after the power of weapons. Others go after the power of money. But true power comes from the mirror.

Tap into that power today.

Portions of this post were adapted from Rich Dad Poor Dad.

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Original publish date: October 16, 2012

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